Not everyone wants what is best for you. Learn to discern who is for you and who is not. Step away from the naysayers. Sometimes you are called to a given situation to help, to learn, to grow. Sometimes it is simply not your battle. Do not engage.
Do not let anyone continue to hurt you. If there is a pattern of abuse in any relationship, get out safely and stay out. Pray for those who spitefully use you but do not continue in a close relationship with them.
Stay safe for you are fearfully and wonderfully made “for such
The change in your life begins with you. Take an inventory. Release what no longer serves your God given vision. Add what will enhance and grow your life in a positive direction. You only pass this way but once. Be quite selective about whom you invite to make this journey with you. Not everyone can go forward with you to where God is taking you now.
Let the old fall away as He directs. Some are in your life simply for a season. Do not hold tight to what or whom He may be releasing from your journey. Move forward.